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I met someone I really like but I'm afraid to tell him I have epilepsy.
What's the right moment to tell someone you like that you have epilepsy? You might not have to right away if you don't have seizures very often. If you start seeing someone a lot, though, or if you have seizures often, it's better to tell. You should probably tell him in person, not over the phone or through e-mail. Just tell him you have something important you want to tell him and that you're telling him because you like him and trust him.

People usually have a lot of questions, so be prepared. Remember, sometimes it takes people a little time to accept something they don't understand very well, so be patient.

my girlfriend was recently diagnosed with epilepsy. she really gave me and her family a scare when she had her first seizure. i am just worried about being with her when she has a seizure, if it is just the two of us. how do i handle the situation? do i need to be worried?
The main thing is to remain calm and keep in mind first aid for seizures. This will give you a good idea of what to do and what not to do in the event you are with your girlfriend and she has another seizure. There is also more information about how to recognize a seizure.

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